On
the first day of Hari Raya, 3rd November 2005, a small group of
eleven Indonesian maids gather at Wan Ching Yuen’s Meeting Room
at 10.00am in the morning. Ven. Wei Wu and Ven. Zhen Xin were there
to wish the Indonesian maids “Selamat Hari Raya Adilfiltri”.
The maids were given a wide variety
of food prepared by Than Hsiang as well as biscuits and other snack
food. Ven. Wei Wu presented the maids with “ang-pows” (monetary
gifts).
Ven. Wei Wu told the maids that
he was reading a book about the teachings of Islam so that he could
better understand the teachings of other religions. This way, people
of various religious denominations could respect and forgive each
other’s religions and thus would not have religious misunderstandings
resulting in violence at times.
Ven. Wei Wu told the maids two stories.
In the first story, the Venerable told the maids that this story
about Jesus was not found in the Bible. One day, Jesus went out
with His followers for a walk. The followers went out in front with
Jesus following at the back. They came upon a dead dog covered with
maggots and emitting foul odours. Jesus’ followers kept far away
from the dead dog, covering their nose from the foul odours. When
Jesus neared the dog, he went close and called His followers to
Him, saying: “How nice and white were the teeth”. Ven. Wei Wu then
asked the maids what they taught was the teaching of the story.
Two maids replied that one should not look down on others because
everyone had their good points (kelebihan). The Venerable raised
his finger in acknowledgement of the point given by the maids and
praised them.
In the second story, the Venerable
told the maids about Arun Gandhi, grandson of Mahatma Gandhi. He
mentioned Arun Gandhi visited Malaysia not long ago. Once, when
young, Arun accompanied his father to send the car to the garage
for repairs. His father requested that they meet at a certain place
at 4.00pm. Arun sent the car to the garage and took the opportunity
to watch a show at the cinema as they seldom leave their village.
The show ended at 5.00pm and Arun rushed to the garage and drove
to meet his father. He told his father that he was late because
he had to wait for the foreman to finish repairing the car. His
father knew however that Arun was lying as his father had called
the garage earlier and was informed by the foreman that the car
was ready for collection an hour ago.
Arun’s father didn’t scold Arun
and said instead that he felt shameful of himself as he had not
properly educated Arun and had cause Arun to lose confidence in
him, hence Arun felt Arun had to lie to him. Arun’s father declared
that this was his fault. From then on, Arun didn’t lie nor cheat
anyone again. Ven Wei Wu advised the maids not to punish the child
when a mistake is made; instead to look at themselves to see whether
they had done their proper part as a parent.
The maids thanked both Ven. Wei
Wu and Ven. Zhen Xin for their generosities with “Amituofo”.
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